It's Not About Making Him Regret Losing you, It's About Moving On For Yourself
- Lady N
- Feb 7
- 1 min read
We've all had that moment where we secretly wished someone who hurt us would realize what they lost.But what if I told you that true healing isn't about them at all?

If you're still trying to make him regret losing you. Its a sign that you haven't truly moved on. The moment we find ourselves trying to make them regret, it means we are still emotinally tied to them and I know that is the hard part. When we separate from someone who we are emotionally attached to, our brain craves that high again, its like withdrawal from an addiction. Trauma bond is a serious thing. Try your best to not look for their attention whether it is through mutual friends or social media. Let that focus be about you getting your power back. Nothing feels good like being able to control your emotions.
REMEMBER THIS
Choose yourself over revenge
self-investment
Wish them well and move on
Focus on your own happiness instead of trying to prove a point you will have peace
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